Doing what our parents did

My DH also had a very poor Mother figure to this day still does. I on the other hand have a wonderful family and it sometimes really bothers me that he is not more involved with our girls. Simple things like giving up a little computer or TV time just to sit down and play with them. His excuse they do not want him there. My answer - then just sit with them while they play at least he would still be spending time with them.